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Why We All Need To Support The Arts

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As much as we were sure this qualified as abuse, I’m really glad my parents did this. For some reason, deep in the recesses of my brain, an appreciation for the arts took root. It lay pretty dormant until I was in my 20s, living in Chicago, and could afford to go see plays, dance performances and other arts productions. During the time I lived in Chicago, there was a small explosion of storefront theaters popping up on the north side of the city. Many of these were started by former Northwestern University and Depaul Theater majors who wanted to do their own thing. In fact, I saw two plays that were staged in a storefront above a bar and both eventually made it to Broadway.

What I noticed is that the arts can operate on a shoestring. At one play, there was literally a cardboard box that had been put out for donations. Imagine having to solicit funds with a box that your shoes came in!

You’re probably reading this and thinking, ok so it’s bad. What’s your point? My point is that it’s up to all of us to support the arts in our community. And, that doesn’t just mean going to see your kid in the Nutcracker, although that’s always a good idea! There are some ways to support the arts that don’t necessarily require a lot of money. 

Repost Social Media Posts From Arts Organizations

Seriously, this is the easiest thing you can do. We just saw that a local dance company is performing at the aviation museum near our house. Yes, our little neighborhood has both an airport and an affiliated museum. And, this weekend, there was a dance performance there. Although we had a conflict, I reposted the information and was thanked by a few people who said they might go check it out.  This costs nothing and you never know who might decide to go!

Volunteer

This takes more time and not everyone has it. But, if you do, organizations are always looking for help. Whether it’s ushering at a large ballet company production or selling tickets for your local dance school’s winter show or chaperoning kids backstage, opportunities abound. It’s also a great way to see productions for free!

Arts organizations also need help in their back offices. Are you an IT wizard? Online marketing specialist? Have a media list a mile long? Administrations in smaller dance companies always welcome help like this!

Go Watch Local Performances

We all have friends with kids who do some sort of performing arts. It usually costs about $10 to go see a local children’s theater play or dance performance. Showing up for a local performance sends the message that the arts matter in your community. It also helps encourage kids when they see that the community is behind them. 

When my son was 13, he got cast as Fritz in the San Francisco Ballet School Nutcracker. And, you know who showed up to watch him? The two biggest bros in his middle school. And, they sat in the front row and cheered. One of these boys is now headed off to play college soccer. Despite huge differences in interests, they showed up for my kid and validated that what he was doing mattered. 

Things like this may not seem like a big deal. But, when you show up, it sends the message to kids in the arts that what they’re doing is as important as what the soccer or lacrosse kids are doing. And, this is what makes for a rich, vibrant and diverse community.

Make Contributions To Scholarship Programs 

Create Lifelong Arts Lovers

I seriously thought my parents were trying to ruin my life by dragging me to all that cultural stuff when I was a kid. But, when I became an adult, I realized what they were doing. My friends laugh at me now because they know I’m happiest sitting in a dark theater watching some sort of live performance. It doesn’t stick with everyone, but it’s worth trying. 

And, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Some of the smaller ballet companies out there often have outdoor performances that cost little and sometimes nothing. Or, go to the spring showcase at your local high school. 

Our motto with our kids was that we took them to everything we could. Did it always stick? No, not even with our dancer. Some stuff was just a bust. But, it’s always worth a try.

And, even if your dancer doesn’t go pro, they represent the next generation of dance audiences. So, get them started early on this!

Give Money

While many companies were able to secure PPP loans from the government, that money has been long spent. And, ticket sales are down across the board. As an anecdote, we’ve been subscribers to the San Francisco Ballet and I have not seen a sold out house more than once or twice in the last two years. I imagine this is the case at other companies as well.

The brutal truth is that funding for the arts kind of sucks in the U.S. And, for those of us who have kids going after a professional dance career, it’s important that as many dance companies as possible can survive and thrive. More companies mean more job opportunities for everyone – not just dancers, but choreographers, musicians, make-up artists, costume makers, lighting and sound experts, and so much more. 

So, please consider supporting your local arts organizations in whatever way you can.

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